Ramblings of an ad hoc doctor

…it’s the ONLY day in the world where people express their love? Why? Do they even know the origin of this day? Why it is celebrated and how did it get its name? NO- not all of us does. For some, Valentine’s Day is the day to show how much you love your other half. My question is, why must us all express our love on the same day as Mr Valentino expressed his sad love story to his woman? Don’t we all have our own dates to remember, and to which is more meaningful to us? Be the trend setter, don’t just be a follower. Worst, don’t be a follower without knowing why.

What is it with celebrities and divorces? What is marriage to them? Huge big fat wedding reception to show off everything they’ve got and then 2 months after to breakup? It’s ridiculous how people treat the sacred bond of marriage as thrash nowadays. Not only celebrities do that, but even normal people. I wonder where they learn all these? In the first place, why get married just to break off after a few weeks? Might as well stay a couple- unmarried than to waste your life and of course your status. To me, marriage should only happen once in a lifetime. If ever it has to end, then, it has to end after years, not months. Of course, I wouldn’t want that to happen though. I want to be married to a responsible man who will love me unconditionally, and I know I have him already. I am just waiting for the right time to tie the knot!

It’s hurtful- when you love somebody so much and you expect him to stand close to you and to support you, but he turned out to favour others who have no importance to our lives! I have told him repeatedly about this, but somehow or rather, he seems to think of me as the devil- as the bad person who wouldn’t help others. Enough is enough, there is surely a limitation to seek help from people, and if some people just don’t get it, we can’t be dumb enough to feed them every single day.

He did call a few times after the fight, but it’s no that easy to forget and pretend like everything is normal. Maybe for him it’s easy because he is heartless and he don’t bother about what I like. Why is it so dificult to say a ‘NO’? What’s wrong with him? To me, he’s just a plain idiot- that’s all.

Life is not always a bed of roses. There are times in life, we are tensed up with situations and people around us. I would say, my life has its ups and downs too. There are times I break down and cry my heart out, but when I come to senses, then, I know it’s not worth it- or is it? It can be confusing sometimes. Whatever it is, life must go on- good or bad. Maybe, we need to try to relax our mind when we are in tough situations.

When things don’t seem right, take a deep breath and chill out! Put some blue elements in your life, relax and forget about the chaos around you. In your own blue universe, broaden your horizons and find true solitude and peace- find your complete freedom and casualty. Be a trendsetter, not a follower; assert yourself, exude energy and optimism. You’ll never have to take no for an answer when you set what you want in your mind!